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Readers Respond: For Improving a Doctor's Bedside Manner
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By Trisha Torrey, About.com

Updated January 30, 2009

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It can be frustrating to try to work with a doctor who lacks a good bedside manner. Some of us have developed tools to encourage better bedside manner from our doctors, and some ideas have been shared below. If you have suggestions on how to improve a doctor's bedside manner, we hope you'll share them, too. Share Your Ideas

Other patients can be a big help

I have one better. In May of 2008, my husband and I drove to the hospital, because I was in labor. When I got to the emergency room I was told to have a seat and the receptionist would be with me in a minute! I was shocked and in quite a bit of pain to boot and I told the gal I would try not to give birth in her waiting area. The other people waiting actually got furious and told the receptionist to please take me first. She was a little put off to be told how to do her job but I got to go to the head of the line. Thank you understanding patients!
—Abbey08

Use first names

One thing I've noticed is that I try to equalize my relationship with my doctor by using his or her first name. I ask, "may I call you ___?" That's usually a surprise, but they seem to treat me better when I do. None of them have said no yet.
—healpatricia

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